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Five Instant Ways To Soothe Somatic Anxiety

Five Instant Ways To Soothe Somatic Anxiety

Most people may associate anxiety with worrying excessively about everything, turning a slight concern into a worst-case scenario, and fearing being out of control of yourself and your life. Anxiety can keep you locked in worry and fear about a future yet to happen. Those worrisome thoughts add up to ‘cognitive anxiety’. Yet, when the fight-or-flight response kicks in, you may also experience a flurry of symptoms in your body – otherwise known as ‘somatic anxiety’ – which may go beyond a few butterflies in the stomach.

The seven factors included in Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD) are:

  • Feeling nervous, anxious, or on edge.
  • Not being able to stop or control worrying.
  • Worrying too much about different things
  • Trouble relaxing.
  • Being so restless that it’s hard to sit still.
  • Becoming easily annoyed or irritable.
  • Feeling afraid as if something awful might happen.

It’s the severity and frequency of these seven symptoms that can determine if you have GAD.

The physical/somatic manifestations of anxiety can include the following:

  • Breathlessness.
  • Feelings of panic.
  • Chest pain.
  • An increased or irregular heart rate.
  • Stomach ache.
  • Indigestion.
  • Headache.
  • Insomnia.
  • Exhaustion.
  • Dizziness.
  • Restlessness.
  • Aching muscles.
  • Sweating.
  • A change in appetite (eating a lot more or losing appetite).

If you are concerned that you are experiencing several of the above symptoms then book an appointment with your GP, who can advise on next steps to support you (which may be through medication). While we can’t comment on the appropriateness of medication for you as an individual, we can offer some tips for you to try to manage the physical symptoms of anxiety.

Self-help ways to soothe your symptoms of somatic anxiety…

1. Breathe.

Catching your breath and slowing down your breathing is the first step to taking back control of your body. Aim to breathe deep into your abdomen, rather than from your chest. Take deep breaths in through your nose and out through your mouth. Breathe in for the count of five, and out for the count of seven. The longer out breath will help regulate your breathing and help you feel calmer and less jumpy.

2. Calm your senses

When the brain is anxious it can interpret external triggers as threats to your very being. Using a ‘54321’ mindfulness technique can help comfort and reassure your nervous system. Think about engaging all five senses to bring you back into your body and so you can consciously focus on being grounded and calm, taking your focus away from the perceived threat.

  • Find five things to look at in your surroundings.
  • Listen to four sounds round and about you.
  • Identify three things you can feel (this be an item you can stroke, like a cushion, or it may be the feel or your bag on your shoulder).
  • Find two things you can smell.
  • Discover one thing you can taste.

3. Relax your muscles

Tense and relax muscle groups over your entire body. You may want to start with your toes, then your whole foot, then your leg etc. Working your way up your body, alternately tensing and relaxing, can work effectively and quickly on your somatic symptoms.

4. Try a ‘butterfly hug’

Wrap your arms across your chest, as if giving yourself a hug. The tips of the fingers should reach the collarbone. Now pat your arms, alternating hands, like the wings of a butterfly. You can keep your eyes open or closed, but as you reach a rhythm with your ‘wings’, ensure to breathe deeply to help calm you.

5. Go for a vigorous walk

Walking is good generally for fitness and wellbeing, but going for a walk when you are anxious – especially in open, green spaces – can help soothe your anxiety. The act of putting one foot in front of the other gives you a purpose, while stomping out your stresses can help you feel more grounded and connected with yourself.

If your anxiety symptoms are becoming too much for you then you may think about seeking professional help. Trained therapists can support you to identify ways to make life more manageable and to help you gain perspective on your triggers. To book an initial appointment with one of our therapists, call 020 8673 4545 or email [email protected].

Karen Dempsey
With a 20-year career in print and online publishing and an MA in creative writing, Karen Dempsey has worked as a journalist, editor and copywriter and has managed large editorial teams. She is a qualified, accredited and practising psychotherapist with an MA/diploma in transpersonal integrative counselling & psychotherapy.
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Don’t let your awkwardness get in the way of that. Avoid clichés. Don’t just trot out the typical things people might say that they think will make the bereaved parents feel better – like, “oh, your baby is too good for earth and has gone to heaven,” or “well, you’ll be able to have another one soon”. That kind of phrase really doesn’t help. They want a human being in front of them who cares and who really doesn’t need to say anything – just be there. Let them talk. Losing a baby can be a lonely time. Your loved one may feel as though no one understands. Even if you don’t truly understand (and you won’t unless you’ve been through it yourself) be there with a sympathetic and caring ear. Keep your own emotions in check. They’re the ones suffering, not you. Don’t break down and make them the ones to look after you. They need your support. You can show your sadness. Of course. But you may need to be the strong one while they’re feeling vulnerable. Be sensitive to when they might need an ally. It can be hard to be around other people with babies and bumps when you’ve lost a baby. Tears can threaten at any point. Keep an eye out for when your loved one might need you to cover for them in a social gathering. Help create a socially acceptable excuse when they need a moment by themselves. Urge them to stay off social media. Facebook, Instagram etc – by their nature – showcase shiny happy people doing shiny happy things. Life events such as pregnancy and babies are often catalogued in minute detail. Especially in the early stages, it may feel healthier and safer for your friend or loved one who’s lost a baby to give social media a miss. Until they feel strong enough to engage again without breaking down. Keep an eye on their mental health. Painful emotions do pass, generally. Sometimes they don’t, especially if there are some underlying issues from earlier in life. A new loss can tap into earlier losses, with compound effect. 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